Hello dear moms how are you and how your kid behavior is now. Because some Child Hits People regularly. What should you do here I will tell you about a mother personal experience that why her child hits people.
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She says my 6-year-old, Liam, beats people when he doesn’t get what he wants, and it’s apprehensive for me.
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When his friend wouldn’t share a computer game, Liam grips his neck. It’s utterly senseless; he pulled his 20-month-old sister off the sofa. And he beats and kicks me after I turn off the television.
He’s giant and physically powerful for his age, and I’m worried he’ll injure somebody.
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What we’ve tried:
- Talking with him and telling him to use his words
- Consequences, like no TV time
- Spanking (as a last resort)
Where we stand: My husband thinks beating is usual boy behavior that our son will outgrow. I don’t. How can I get Liam to be aware of that hitting isn’t right?
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The experts respond
Ditch the Spanking: Spanking is not the answer here. Bodily punishment is suitable for alleviating a parent’s antagonism than discouraging a kid’s awful behavior.
- You’re correct, although, to separate Liam in a time-out for protection and so that everybody can cool down. After a time-out, talk with him about what he might do in the future instead of it.
Put it into words: When children don’t obtain what they want, they feel annoyed. You should train him how to show rage correctly.
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- When he looks like he might lash out, grasp his hands so he can’t beat and help him put his feelings into words: “Can I have a turn please?”
- Admire him for making himself peaceful and healthy, and then tell him good positive manners and calm down his self.
Help him find a better way: Liam is weeping for a suitable outlet for his annoyance and fury. Make him quiet, peaceful, uninterrupted time with him and his father to set a zero-tolerance policy about beating.
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- It’s very significant for parents to present an aggressive United behavior. Liam is also old enough to hear about potential consequences: somebody could get the injury, he could be suspended, he could get a negative character, or he could be unable to find friends.
- Parents should encourage him to show positive feelings He could hit earth, beat a pillow, hit a punching bag for releasing his anger, use an “I” statement (“I want that plaything back”), say what he’s feeling (“I’m mad that you took my toy”), make himself peaceful, or leave the scene.
- Help him and rehearse of positive behavior together – again and again – until he learns it. And when he shows just angry behavior teach him that it’s not right peacefully.
- “Looks like you’re furious. Do you want to go outside to run it off?”
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