Some children feel very uncomfortable with their class fellows and other people because they have the lack of confidence. Here I will tell you four ways to boost your child confidence. You will get benefit from it because it’s very effective and I have used it personally. Let’s know about these tips.

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Be Realistic

Some Questions you Ask Child

Always be realistic to your child. Tell your school age child that he can play piano and draw what he wants.

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Won’t make him feel safer (he cares, after all).

“If you just say, ‘You’re wrong’ or ‘It doesn’t matter,’ he’s likely to feel misunderstood,”

 Says Connirae Andreas, Ph.D., a therapist in Boulder, Colorado. Acknowledge his feelings with a simple statement:

“You noticed that Nick can read music, and you’d like to be able to do that too, right?”

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Then help him realize how.

“Emphasize the process rather than the result,”

Dr. Reilly says. “Your child’s friend may be better because he’s been practicing more or started taking lessons earlier.”

Allow your child decides if mastering a particular task and putting in the required attempt is significant to him (or whether he’d be equally happy playing “Chopsticks”).

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Dig Deeper

Feeling Knowledge Attitude of Child

It is the handiest tip for you, and it’s about a common problem. If your cute kid comes house from school, very displease and disturb, saying that

 “Kerry is prettier than I am,”

Then tries to know that what the reason of it. Says Frank Sileo, Ph.D., a Ridgewood, New Jersey, therapist and author of Don’t Put Yourself Down in Circus Town: A Story About Self-Confidence.

“Ask ‘Why do you think that?’ ”

Five- and 6-year-olds children frequently jump to the incorrect results, mistaking a teacher’s praise to another student

(“Your outfit is beautiful today, Kerry”)

As a statement of fact. Still, her sense that other children are “better” could show a causal difficulty. If she says

“Emma is a better reader,”

for instance, that might mean your kid is stressed in school and wants some extra help. “Lily has nicer clothes.”

Might imitate that your kid is being taunt about what she’s wearing to class.

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“If you’re concerned, talk to your child’s teacher to make sure that everything’s okay, academically and socially,”

Dr. Sileo suggests.

Watch Your Words

Offer Unconditional Love To Child

Observe your words, to practice binding his shoe-tie is a beautiful thing, but making them very firm or telling the reality at the dinner table that his friends already know how to secure double ties can get him think regarding

“Better” and “Worse”

And come to the conclusion that he is substandard to his friends.

“Instead, focus on supporting his interests, admiring him on both his efforts and his mastery,” Dr. Walco says.

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Focus on Personal Growth

Great Role Model For your Child

Train your kid that the most significant judgment isn’t about her most excellent friend (or her classmate or big sister) but someone she was in the past.

“Kids have to learn to measure themselves against themselves,” says family therapist Jay Scott Fitter, author of Respect Your Children: A Practical Guide to Effective Parenting. Point out how much she has improved over a small period: “Remember last year, when you couldn’t read at all? Look how far you’ve come in just one year!”

Then assure her that, by trying hard and doing her best, she’ll continue to get better.

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