Hello dear moms how are you and how your kid behavior is now. Because some children interrupt phone calls than what you should do here I will tell you about a mother personal experience; she says why her child interrupts my phone calls.
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My Child Interrupts My Phone Calls
She says my 3-year-old, Miller, an only kid, is completely intolerant when my husband or I am on the telephone. He does whatever he can do and its dangerous habit, he then use his voice or plays with noisy toys, to disrupt our phone discussion. We’re not extra phone discussers: I’m talking about small general calls, good calls like scheduling doctors’ appointments.
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What we’ve tried:
- Explaining the understanding behavior expected
- Make him know about phone call tat how long it will take, and reassuring him he’ll have my concentration later.
- Giving him something to do before picking up the telephone
- Offering less disorderly ways to get our concentration, such as raising his hand
- Before a call, reviewing the consequences of interrupting
- Admiring him when he doesn’t disrupt
Where we stand: We seem to be making the very little improvement.
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The experts respond
Leave the room: Experts suggest that you should change the place as go to another room during phone calls –while Miller is busy with something. Tell him you’ll join him just as quickly as you’re done. He may protest a little at first, but he will learn to increase patience for these short separations.
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Only children frequently don’t want to try to win for their parents’ concentration means he doesn’t compete, but your kid needs to learn about delayed satisfaction. The delay is not denial – it’s just delay.
Help him learn to wait: You’re working very hard, but nothing is working finally for making your kid behavior normal. It takes many weeks for a child to learn new manners, and frequently things get some worse before they get improved.
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What you’re dealing with is an intolerant kid. You can help Miller learn to wait by accepting his presence – with actions, not words – tenderly patting his back, holding close, or signaling with a finger “one more minute.”
Very young children have a partial idea of time, so try giving him extra time to know about him. Give him something to do while you’re on the telephone, and then admire him when he shows positive behavior. Consistency is key.
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Create a special box: This is general 3-year-old behavior. I’d leave out all the explaining: Instead, make a special box that only comes out during phone calls and fill it with enjoyable things which Miller likes.
If this tip doesn’t work, take your telephone into the bathroom and close the door, and just allow your kid have his feelings. You don’t need to rescue him if he’s distress.
Just relax him by saying: “Where’s your phone box?” Or “What do you need to do when I’m on the phone?” That gets your son involved in solving the problem.
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